i did this....pathetic?

About awhile ago, I was exercising with some of my married friends, and of course, the conversation came to me and

as it always inevitably does when you are single, and with ppl of your

age group that are not

the question arose "why aren't you married?"

apparently all of my married girlfriends think i'm a

hot commodity and should be married

one, or maybe two, or maybe three of these friends

threatened that they would sign up as me on a singles site.

these women are not to be taken lightly, especially when they threaten.

i've been a member of LDS mingles for about two months now

i figured i had better do it before they did.

it's been interesting...there is all of these psuedo ways of making connections that seem utterly silly to be (being the bold and upfront person that I am)

smiles, flirts, cards, sparks, favorites, and even a messenger!!!!

how do you even talk to people like that? ? well they figured that out too!!....they have pre-written conversation starters :)

i've talked to some nice dudes, some strange rude ones, and some that i thought that there might be a connection....but really how do you get out of the technology and on to a real conversation and friendship?

that's what i'm about, reality... i want to touch someone (hehe), talk to someone, meet someone, not just chat.